Grands are the Greatest!

River Region Parents Magazine featured Arleshia Johnson, grandmother of two Montgomery Christian School students.

What has raising your grandchildren, now ages 6 and 5, taught you? 

Arleshia: Raising my granddaughters has taught me patience, resilience, and unconditional love. I had to learn how to listen and communicate openly. I find myself being very affectionate to ensure they know I love them with all my heart. I live in the moment with them so they will have fond memories.

When your grandchildren were born, how did their births help you through some of your health challenges? 

Arleshia: My health began to decline in 2012, and by 2018, I was tired and ready to throw in the towel. But GOD had plans for me. In March 2018, Armoni was born, and 11 months later, Olivia was born. I had a new purpose and reason for living. They needed me, and I needed them. They were a part of me, and I wanted to be part of their precious lives.

For 10 years, you worked for the Department of Youth. How did that experience shape you as a grandparent? 

Arleshia: Society has gotten away from the principles and foundations of raising children well. Working with juveniles, I was able to see problems with the youth. Children pay close attention to the things adults do and say. You must teach them values, consequences for their actions, accountability, and empathy. 

Describe how your grandchildren’s milestones are important to you. 
Arleshia: Each day gives life a new meaning. I was there for the birth of my two grandchildren, their first tooth, first steps, first words, terrible twos, first day of school, kindergarten graduation, and all of their beautiful growth. They are always surprising me with how much they are learning. Their journey has just begun, and I am here for the ride.

…The realness is that you see your children with their children, and your legacy circle is beginning. My granddaughters are my life right now. Every day, we are looking to do something different. Our bond is inseparable. I am so proud of them. Being a grandmother is the greatest joy of my life.